Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Oh the DRAMA . . .

Dear God . . .

I’ve really become of the opinion that before you are allowed to work in the Adult Entertainment Industry, you should be certified as an ADULT.

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I guess I should explain why, shouldn’t I?

The club I am at now has some VERY young girls working there, which is fine, but they all seem to think they are still in high school. One in particular likes to talk about other entertainers behind their backs, acting all sweet to them to their faces & then she does this “poor pitiful me” act when she gets called out on it. (Of course that could just be the way she reacted to me when I called her out and informed her that the next time my name fell out of her mouth, I would unscrew her arms and beat her to death with them, but that’s because she was talking to customers about other girls’ home lives, which is a serious no-no). She likes to think she can run with the big dogs, but really she can’t, and she probably never will reach that level, especially since she likes to point out all the married girls to the customers, all the while hiding the fact that she has a two-time loser boyfriend.

Then there are the girls who cover themselves in glitter and then complain about not getting dances. I will, once again, explain this dynamic: MEN DON’T BUY DANCES FROM GIRLS COVERED IN GLITTER BECAUSE IT’S AN AUTOMATIC BUST! And they don’t want their wives or girlfriends to know they’ve been in a strip club. Besides, to quote my friend Truck, glitter is the herpes of the craft/strip world, once you get it on you, you will NEVER get rid of it.

Why did I bring this up, you ask? We had a girl, another young one who couldn’t work unless she was fucked up, who had a glitter explosion in the dressing room at work. It was blue and purple and got EVERYWHERE and onto EVERYTHING. It looked like a swarm of faeries had had explosive diarrhea. And instead of cleaning it up, she walked out & left it for the rest of us to deal with. All that glitter ended up costing a few of us some dances, and she ended up humiliated when she was told to leave the floor and clean it up, in front of a customer. Not that any of this matters anyway, since she was fired for leaving with a customer. I guess chasing a habit will make you do desperate things, won’t it?

And all this brings me around to the title of this post. I had read a blog posted by Vicky Vette a few months ago talking about how there should be some kind of program to ensure you are making intelligent decisions before entering the porn industry. She suggested some kind of psychiatric evaluation and a minimum age of 21 to start making adult films, since the industry will eat you alive if you aren’t mature enough to handle it properly. In all the years I’ve been dancing, I’ve seen stripping eat young girls alive. They come into the club all wide eyed and wondrous, with dollar signs in their eyes, believing the hype that it’s fast, easy money and all you have to do is walk around and be pretty. Now, there are nights when the money is fast, and it seems easy, but for the most part it’s not. And the majority of girls I know have NEVER made money JUST because they are pretty.

And once the baby dancers realise this and come to understand that the vets have a grip on the fact that being tiny and cute is not what gets your bills paid, jealousy sets in. They like to talk shit about the earners, saying things like “Anastasia sucks dick in the VIP”, “Anastasia gets nasty in the back” or whatever because, at my age, I am making more money than they are, or because guys are wanting me and not them. And it’s not just me they are talking about, and it’s not just in the club I’m at now. It’s in every club and it seems as though every veteran dancer I know is, at some point, the target of some kind of gossip. And the funny thing is, while all these babies who think they are still in high school are spreading rumours, they don’t understand that by telling customers so-and-so sucks dick/fucks in the back, they are helping that girl make MORE money. Because, really, if you were a guy, who would you buy a dance from – the girl telling you, or the girl she’s saying it about? Personally, I would go for the girl who supposedly gets nasty in the back LOL.

And therein lies the paradox for me. There are times when I will take every dollar the baby dancers earn for me, because it makes my life a little easier. Then are times when I am absolutely tired of being gossiped about. It’s the times when I am tired of being the center of all the gossip and drama that I am comforted by the words of the  most shameless self-promoters on the planet, Gene Simmons. He once said “Good or bad, it’s all publicity, and any publicity is good publicity” or something to that effect! LOL

And now it’s time for me to cut this off and go start my beauty rituals for work. Catch y’all later!

Saturday, January 9, 2010

New Year, new stuff going on!

Well, after spending much of last year wondering just what the hell was going on and why the club wasn’t working for me, I decided to leave that particular club and find greener pastures elsewhere.

Turns out, I didn’t have far to go. There’s a very small club around the corner from where I live and it’s had a bad reputation for quite some time, but they’ve hired a new management team and fired quite a few dancers, so I decided to go check it out and found it had turned around! Being duly impressed, I joined their team of entertainers and am now back to being a happy stripper instead of a miserable stripper! YAY!

The absolute biggest difference is the fact that this club actually advertises and has passes and flyers out all the time. That, plus it’s a full nude place (we don’t serve alcohol, but you can bring in your own beer, wine and champagne) and it’s so much easier to sell dances when your vagina is out! LOL

Anyway, the name of this place has changed too. It is now Crazy Horse of Rock Hill, where it used to be Emerson’s of Rock Hill.

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So, that’s the biggest news. In other news, I am back to updating my amateur site. I’ve found it’s easier to use than the clips for sale store I have. It’s all just push button publishing. I was playing around on it earlier, putting up a new photo set, and it was just EASY! So, I’m going to be concentrating on that. Plus for Christmas my other half set up a laptop for me, so I will be back on web cams soon, on the site I just mentioned, and since I will be on the laptop, I will be able to do it from different places in my house! Like the bathtub! Won’t that be fun!?

And how was everyone’s Christmas? Mine was AWESOME! I got the one thing I wished for most, and that was all I really needed, everything else was just icing on the cake. I could’ve even done without the new Tiffany & Co necklace I got, but it’s beautiful and I love it and it looks magnificent with my leopard print trench coat! The other half did a great job this year! Might have to keep him another year!

I guess that’s all for now. I’ve got links to my site all over my blog now, so make sure you click on ‘em & check out what I’m doing! Now I’m off to find the latest version of Pinnacle for video editing!

MWAH!!!!

Anastasia Foxx

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Where have I been?!


Well, let's see . . . what have I been up to lately? Not much really, just working at the club! Thankfully it's getting better there, so I've really not got much to complain about! LOL


The area I live in was inundated with rain for several weeks, so much so that my backyard looked like a Louisiana swamp for quite some time and I had to get used to the smell of wet dog and damp. And all that rain really made me feel low and very depressed, to say the very least.


But now we have sun and I am feeling a little happier, so I will be getting back to work on a few things soon enough!


And for all my shoe fetishists, a new picture! Those are my brand new 9" heeled platform boots I got to wear with my Halloween costume at work. They are beyond fabulous, are they not?
And, now that you've been updated, I am off to work on a new project! I will tell you more later!
MWAH!!!!
Anastasia

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

A much needed break & a wonderful surprise!


Ok, so I'm back with another report from the world of ME. YAY!


In all honesty, there hasn't been a lot going on lately. I had an accident at the club a couple of weeks ago that gives new meaning to the phrase "Busting your ass at work," and it's taken some time to get back to the point where I can work without wanting to scream my head off from the pain. It was even hurting to sit or lay down for long periods of time. It was awful!


But I am better now that I took a much needed break and went to Houston to spend a few days with my significant other while he was on a tour break. It really was an AWESOME time! There was way too much to do there, and not enough time to do it all! I'm really glad I got to get out of town for a few days and relax - I even got a massage! And of course that helped my back tremendously. To the point where I was able to go back to work at the club last night. OH! And the best part? I was gifted with another piece of Tiffany & Co jewelry, a dragonfly pendant!


Which brings me to this: I love the Gold Club and the people who work there, and I really would like to see it get busier and busier, but I'm not sure how to make that happen. We have a few girls who always seem to make money, but they are of questionable repute (hey if that's your thing, more power to you, I'm not gonna judge, unless you're blatantly illegal, then you're risking everyone else's jobs, not just yours). I haven't been able to find my groove here in Charlotte. I'm aggressive, but not in-your-face aggressive. I know that historically, I've made very little money off hispanics and African-Americans. and that is holding true here as well. I just need to figure out a new hustle I guess.


It would be great if more of my fans could come in to see me, because I always like meeting new people. But that doesn't seem to happen. We get a lot of guys who come in and there's always something they find wrong with me. And then they want to point it out in the rudest way possible, instead of just saying no thanks, they want to tell me I'm too fat, too thin, too white, don't have enough ass, I'm too smart, whatever their excuse is. You know what would be easier for me? Tell me you want the skinniest, dumbest blonde we've got, give me $20 and I'll go get her for you! LOL Sometimes I just get tired of begging for money while some of the more unfortunate girls we have are upstairs drinking champagne by the bottle.


Ah well, I'm sure I'll get it figured out somehow. I'd better anyway . . .


Meanwhile, in the next few days, I will be gearing up to do more webcams on the clips store site. Be sure to click on the title to go check that out and get in touch with me so we can get set up to have some fun together!

Sunday, September 27, 2009

I'm gonna SCREAM!!!!


So, it's been an AWFUL last few weeks, to say the very least. No money in the strip club, a pretty severe lower back injury, and now computer problems I can't figure out for the life of me. I am SO ready for a Mac. I should add one to my Wish List.


This afternoon I am spending working on my Clips Site, as I need to get it all together so I can start seriously doing cams on it so all you can see me! LOL I am getting some help on the text from a friend of mine, Miss Midnight, who also does cams, and I am wading through pictures to put up and here shortly I'm going to see if I can get Pinnacle to work so I get some videos cleaned up and uploaded for your viewing pleasure.


I'm also looking for a real photographer to work with. Nikki is still in LA and will be until at least next summer and I am so ready for another photo shoot! And another video shoot! Unfortunately, I always get these skeevy little guys who can't get laid who are all like "I'll take pictures of you, with my dick your mouth." Yeah, NOT.


On the upside, I've found a modeling agency I would love to work with and I have submitted pictures and once again, I am playing the waiting game. I hate the waiting part and it seems like that is all I am doing these days. At the club I am waiting for customers to come in, here at the house I am waiting for coffee, waiting for the computer to work right, yadda yadda yadda. LOL


OK, enough of that, the picture of the day is above, hope you guys like it!
MWAH!!!!
Anastasia

Saturday, August 29, 2009

When things go well . . .

 

When things go well, you know of course, almost instinctually, that something will get fouled up. It’s almost a law of the universe! LOL Well, things have been going pretty well here, then, last night, I was colouring my hair and had soap and hair conditioner all over the place, and of course, I slip and fall and manage to cut my shoulder open on the bathtub faucet and knock my head on the corner of the tub. Nice, no work at the club for me last night.

Then, as if that weren’t bad enough – the worst part was that I was home alone, and had it been any worse, I could’ve been seriously injured in some way – I got word that my daughter’s boss’s 7 year old daughter has been diagnosed with a brain tumour. Her name is Sophia and my daughter says she is one of the sweetest little girls ever.

And this got me to thinking. I read the news everyday, it’s like an obsession with me. So I read all sorts of things, like the fiend in California who held a girl he kidnapped 18 years ago hostage in his backyard and the police & his probation officers continually missed the tents and sheds in his backyard. Then there was the release of the Lockerbie Bomber (I don’t know how to spell his name & could really care less) that was greeted with such jubilation in the Third World Terrorist Supporting country of Libya.

This is the question, why do these fiendish people get the good breaks, continually, and then an innocent 7 year old girl end up with a brain tumour? Seems like things are all topsy turvy and those of us who work hard and try to do the right things all the time get screwed over while people who fuck up not only their lives but the lives of the people around them can, almost literally, get away with murder.

There just seems to be no justice in the world, and I wonder if there really ever was any to begin with. I work hard to be a good entertainer, to be a good mother, to be a good person in general (when in fact I’ve met more people who should be incinerated than not) and I get put out of commission two weekends in a row (once for the slip and fall in the shower last night, and then once for an infection I was fighting off) but this asshole who kidnapped an 11 year old and raped her repeatedly got paroled out of Leavenworth less than 10 years into a 50 year sentence – for another kidnap and rape. This monster who was involved in the Lockerbie Bombing of a trans-Atlantic flight, a bombing that killed hundreds of people and affected families all over the world, gets released and sent home because he has prostate cancer. They should’ve let him rot in jail, in my opinion.

OK, I’ve vented enough. Perhaps later on I will post a fantasy or something sexier and more interesting for you guys. In the meantime, please say a prayer or think a kind thought for little Sophia. I don’t care if your god is called Yahweh, Allah, Shiva, Buddha, Satan, Jesus Christ or any other number of gods out there, just do something nice here.

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

So, what had happened was . . .

 

It’s been seemingly forever since I posted and there have been some things going on behind the scenes that I am really excited about!

First and foremost, I am going to be in a national magazine at the start of the new year and I can hardly wait until it comes out! I’ve wanted to be in this magazine for what seems like FOREVER and now it’s going to happen! I think it will be a great move for my career. I’ll let you know more when I have definates down.

In other news, today my X Pole arrived! YAY!!!! We got it all set up, and locked so I can practice on a static pole before I go all crazy with the whole spinning thing! I just hadn’t realised how out of shape I’ve become until I tried to do a shoulder lift, which was something I used to be able to do with ease. After a year of eating pasta, not so much anymore! LOL So now I have to figure out a schedule for my pole workouts, at least until the 27th of August, then the house will be all mine and I can work out whenever!

Which leads to my other news, starting on the 28th of August, I will be available for pre-booked webcam shows, and will be camming once again! I know you are all excited about that! I know I am! I can hardly wait to be bad on the cam again! I know you’re going to come see me, or better yet! Pre-book your own private show with me and we’ll have some fun!

I guess that’s it. Like I said, I was on the pole earlier and worked on some muscles that I hadn’t used in a while, so I’m a little sore and thinking about soaking in the bath-tub, maybe taking some pictures to post! Don’t forget to click the pic below!

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